Your Next Chapter Starts Here
Finding the right person later in life takes more than swiping through an app, showing up to a mixer or joining a pickleball league. You’ve built a life, you have deep history, and what you need in a partner has changed since you were younger. We genuinely get to know every member which is why all our matches start with a conversation instead of a database.
01 | Membership Interview
Regina and Damian will talk with you about your story and what you're looking for next. This conversation tells us whether we can help, and it gives you a chance to see if we're the right people to trust with something this important.
02 | Membership
Every member goes through Pairwise, our own process for vetting and matching. It includes a background check, personality and compatibility profiles, a photo session, and an in-depth, honest conversation, and you keep every result. Apps can’t capture this stage of life adequately and AI can’t replicate the quality of our process. Each introduction you receive comes from people who have met you both and stand behind the match.
When we find the right person, we call you and introduce you to someone we believe could be right for the life you've created. We aren’t selling dates. Every introduction is made with one goal: a relationship worth building.
We pitch why we think this pairing makes sense, and you always have the choice to proceed or pass.
Your membership ends when you find your partner. From your very first call, it's the outcome we've been working toward.
03 | Matched
How Much Does Membership Cost?
partneR/D offers three membership levels, Foundation, Preferred, and Tailored, so you can choose the amount of support that fits where you are. Every member goes through Pairwise which begins with vetting: an in-depth conversation, a background check, personality and compatibility assessments, a professional headshot session, before being considered for a match.
Foundation membership is a one-time $4,750 fee for twelve months, giving you the results of our vetting process and ongoing consideration whenever a potential match arises.
– One-time fee, no ongoing payments
– Background check, personality and compatibility assessments, with results shared and reviewed together
– An in-depth, in person interview with both of us, preferably in your home
– A professional headshot session, yours to keep
– A written profile, prepared by us
– Twelve months of active consideration as matches arise
Preferred membership is a $17,500 one-time fee for a twelve-month active search, including up to five qualified match presentations.
– One-time investment, no ongoing payments
– An active, human-led, personal search for your partner
– We recruit, interview, and vet to find your partner, including people outside our existing membership
– We present each match we believe is qualified before every introduction
– After each introduction, we follow up with you and the other member for feedback, then share it with you both
– Everyone you meet has completed Pairwise, the same vetting process you have
– Your search includes up to five qualified match presentations. If you meet your partner sooner, we will celebrate with you as the search ends there.
Tailored membership starts at $35,000 and is built entirely around your specific search.
– One-time investment, scoped to what's included
– We start with a conversation about your specific needs, then build the experience from there. That might include:
– A regional or national search
– One-on-one coaching sessions
– Dating concierge support
– Wardrobe and image consultation
– Additional qualified match presentations beyond the Preferred level
– Like Preferred, we celebrate when you meet your match and the search ends.